Monday, February 11, 2013

to home school, or not...




I'm so happy with Michael's progress in home school. His reading is really progressing.  We're practicing during lesson times as well as at night before I read a chapter book. He just finished reading his second Little Bear book and is so proud.  We're still sounding out most words but now he's remembering some of the words as well and when he comes to them he reads them out proudly.  Those moments always give me a little thrill.

Math has been fun!  This is still surprising to me as I always loathed Math and had to jump through some mental hurdles to get to this point. At first, I wasn't sure how to extend the Math gnome stories. Now, I find they just seem to come up as we explore numbers.  We've been playing with our gnomes and jewels and number cards.  I make up stories on the spot and we just have fun with them. 

I like our home school so much better when I loosely follow our plans, when I let spontaneity thrive. However... Michael wants to go to school!!!

There is a charter school in our area that his best buddy goes to.  It's a very small, project based school.  They have only one class in each grade. They wear uniforms & take walks everyday. A chef prepares their whole food lunches daily.  The kids eat in their classroom and parents and young siblings are welcome to come and have lunch at the school.  Also snacks are prepared by parents and served mid morning.  It's a lovely school, very relaxed about learning styles and levels and they do not teach to the tests.  All the parents are required to put in a certain amount of volunteer time in their child's class or helping to prepare lunch.  All of this sounds fabulous to me and to Michael too! So we've put Michael's name in the lottery to attend school next year (It's a year round school and so begins in July!).  Being a lottery, he may or may not get in, we will see.  We're excited though at the possibility.




Of course for Mommy there's a little flip side to that excitement.  Have I prepared him well enough?  Is his reading at grade level?  Math? Right now, in addition to our Waldorf lessons we are also doing workbooks in math & reading!  (gasp!)  I figure he needs to learn how to do those worksheets if he's to be in school. That's a joke really, I don't know how often this school uses worksheets.  But I really want to make sure he's up to grade level and feels confident in his skills and traditional book work. So far it's going well and he's found the workbooks really fun.  Where I feel appropriate we add in our Waldorf sensibilities.  For instance in the math workbook there was a little cartoon activity to count by 2's.  We count by 2's in circle time.  We wrote out counting by 2's on the board and we counted out our glass jewels by 2's.  In the above photo we were looking at counting by tens.  I was showing him how we can add ten to get to the next number or we can use multiply who is a bit more efficient in adding bigger amounts. The hands on Waldorf methods and the workbooks have been really fun for him.  If he doesn't get into the charter this year then we will continue with home school next year and apply again. 

I'm a bit nervous about this new direction and a little emotional as I write this.  I'm trying to have faith and simply follow where we feel divinely led.  If it's right for Michael, I feel sure he'll get in.  And if not, and another year of home school would be best for him than I think we will be led in that direction.  Either way, I know Michael will be well cared for.

Would we be giving up on Waldorf?  That question had crossed my mind, but followed by a most emphatic "no"!  I LOVE Waldorf and we will still have a Waldorf home.  We'll still be doing our Waldorf crafts, perhaps after school or on weekends and vacations.  Our rhythm will continue, our nature table, our creative play.  And then there's little Owen, not so little anymore. He will be four years old in June. He will get the benefit of one on one time with Mommy, we'll do storytelling, circle time, baking, painting, etc.  If Michael goes to school we will most definitely be reading his 3rd grade Old Testament stories at bed time.  Waldorf will still thrive in our home.

And honestly, the idea of having this "village" to help raise our kids sounds really good to me right now.

Until next time...

13 comments:

  1. I can imagine how much you have thought about all of this change! Not an easy decision but I believe you said it best when you said "Either way, I know Michael will be well cared for." The school sounds fantastic (wish we had one like it!) and I know you will always have Waldorf in your home!
    I would not worry one bit that Michael is "behind" the other children just because they go to school. Having our kids in public school I have learned that the opposite is most often true, homeschooled children are often miles ahead. It gives them such a solid base to build.
    I know that whatever path you are meant to be on will happen. How do you feel about schooling year round? They are talking about doing that here.
    All the best to you and your family Becca! Keep us posted!
    ~ joey ~

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    1. Thanks for your comment Joey! I don't have first hand experience about all year round but I know my friend really likes it. They get little vacations throughout the year and I think a month off in the summer.

      I will keep you posted. We'll know after March 5th. I'm trying not to hope either way. All the best to you as well!

      B

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  2. Oh Mama what a hard choice! I do like that it is a lottery and you are putting your faith in the divine to lead you and how lucky you are to have a wonderful charter school as an option. My only choices are $25,000 a year to send my to little ones to our local Waldorf School or public school. I simply cannot afford the tuition for the little ones as I stay at home with them now, My oldest was able to attend because I was working full time, so homeschool is the route I have choosen, and I am really looking forward to it as they move up in the grades, but I fear them feeling like they are missing out on the "real school" experience too. Luckily we have a very active local Waldorf/Unschool homeschool group here and even though my little ones are only 2 we are making them part of our village now.

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    1. It is a hard choice but I know we are being guided. Whatever path is best for Michael is what I want. I so wish we had a Waldorf home school group in the area, you are really so lucky to have that. It's so good to have others to share the HS journey with.

      I can't believe that tuition cost?! ouch.

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  3. Tough choices we have to make as parents! But as you say, it will work out in the end. Although school fees are extreme here in Kenya, I do count my blessings that we are able to send our kids to the Waldorf School and incorporate the Waldorf philosophy in our home. Home schooling here has become less of an option, because the if one follows the education law here, it has become officially illegal!

    When will you know about Michael's acceptance in the school?

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    1. That's sad that home schooling is illegal in some countries. Home schooling is so wonderful in so many ways. It seems only right that everyone who would wish to home school would have the freedom to do so. Is the Waldorf school there as costly as it is in the states? We're starting to have free Waldorf charters pop up here and there in the US. I know many feel they're often watered down Waldorf, but I can't help but think it's a positive thing.

      We will know if he won the lottery after March 5th.

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  4. Ziezo I was wondering about the laws of homeschooling in other countries, apparently their was a German family that sought political assylum in the U.S. because they were not allowed to homeschool in Germany. I would like to do some more research and see where homeschooling is not allowed. Thanks for sharing your laws in Kenya.

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  5. Sometimes we can be so attached to an ideal (weather it be schooling for some families, or homeschooling for others), but I think you are being a good parent to go with the flow and try to find what you feel is a good fit. And now one ever said we can't change our minds ;)

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  6. That school sounds wonderful! My 7 year old hasn't really ever mentioned wanting to go to school, but I don't know what we'd do if she ever does. We are fortunate to have some great schools in the area, but I don't think any sound as nice as the one you are considering.

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  7. Oh my goodness, this is such a timely post for me! We're pretty sure we're letting our oldest try cyberschool for high school, but it seems so scary to let go of the way we've been doing things for the past 9 years. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

    And thank you for posting on Waldorf Wednesday. Hope to see you back this week!
    http://ourseasonsofjoy.com/waldorf-wednesday-link-up/waldorf-wednesday-23-on-a-thursday/

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  8. Thank you everyone for all your thoughtful comments!

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  9. We have so enjoyed everything that you have shared on your blog about your home-school journey. I feel sure that you have given your chocolate eyed boys the very best of foundations. whichever pathway opens to you, we wish you the best. A well nourished plant with a strong root system will do well and grow to the sun, thriving where it is or, if moved to new soil, the change can offer it new directions. I hope that you keep crafting and blogging though!
    best wishes, Iris Rosex

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  10. I just wanted to say that if you want to talk about anything, please feel free to get in touch. We are waldorf homeschoolers and are loving every minute of it. :)

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